Key takeaways
- NATO Secretary General Mark Rutte said on November 5, 2026 that he sent Donald Trump a short message urging him to keep his chin up after Republicans lost both chambers of Congress.
- Rutte said neither Russia nor Ukraine is likely to win outright and that the war will probably end in a compromise peace deal.
- Rutte reiterated that the United States remains essential to Europe's defense, describing the alliance as a vehicle for American power that Europe cannot yet replace.
- US-brokered talks involving Ukraine, the United States and Russia are scheduled for Abu Dhabi on November 10 and 11, 2026, and will test how far Washington's priorities align with its NATO allies.
NATO Secretary General Mark Rutte said he sent President Donald Trump a brief message after Republicans lost both chambers of Congress in the November 3 midterm elections, telling him to “keep your chin up.” Rutte made the remarks on November 5, 2026, on the Dutch talk show Pauw & De Wit. The interview matters because it shows how the head of the Western alliance is positioning NATO toward a weakened but still decisive US president, as Ukraine peace talks approach.
NATO is the 32-member North Atlantic Treaty Organization, the political and military alliance of which the United States is the largest military contributor. Rutte used the appearance to make a case that has defined his tenure: keep Washington engaged, and avoid public friction with Trump.

What did Rutte say about NATO and the United States?
According to Bloomberg, Rutte strongly reiterated the essential role of the US in defending Europe. He described NATO as a platform that lets the Americans show their power, which he said serves European interests because Europe cannot yet do so alone. Rutte also described his use of the word “Daddy” for Trump at the 2025 NATO summit as a “big mistake.”
On Iran, Rutte praised Trump for his determination to stop Tehran from building nuclear weapons. Bloomberg noted that voter discontent over the Iran war and the resulting rise in fuel prices was a major factor in the Republican defeat. Related coverage: Why Vance’s midterm verdict raises the stakes at Hormuz.
Does NATO expect a compromise peace in Ukraine?
Rutte said an outright victory for either side is unlikely. “These kinds of wars always end in a peace deal, which is often a kind of compromise,” he said, according to Ukrainian News. He added that he speaks with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky every week and expressed admiration for him.
He also issued a warning about the aftermath. Russia currently poses no immediate military threat to Europe’s borders because much of its army is tied up in Ukraine, Rutte said, but a huge army would not simply stay idle once the fighting ends. He added that a working relationship between Trump and Russian President Vladimir Putin is important.

The remarks come as diplomacy accelerates. Trump’s special envoy Steve Witkoff announced that trilateral talks between Ukraine, the US and Russia will take place in Abu Dhabi on November 10 and 11. Trump also met Putin’s envoy Kirill Dmitriev at the White House on November 5 and said a broader agreement could involve all of Europe. The National Security Journal reported that Zelensky wants concrete answers on security guarantees.
How did Rutte handle the US-Russia diesel deal?
The diesel arrangement between Trump and Putin has unsettled European capitals. Rutte’s treatment of it was reported differently by different outlets. Bloomberg reported that he acknowledged “panic” among US European allies when the deal was announced. The Kyiv Post, citing Bloomberg, said he declined to give his own verdict on the agreement.
RT, a Russian state-funded outlet, reported that Rutte went further and turned the criticism back on Europe. It quoted him saying he “raised an eyebrow for a while,” and noting that Europe bought €6 billion of Russian LNG in the first half of the year. “Europe is not holy either,” RT quoted him as saying. Because RT is the only source for this framing, it should be treated with caution. For the market side of the deal, see Russian diesel tankers turn away from the US.

What does Europe think of Trump after the midterms?
A New York Times analysis by Steven Erlanger, republished by IntelliNews on November 6, 2026, argues that the Democratic victory has brought private relief to some Europeans but no official glee, with Ukraine, Iran and NATO all hanging in the balance. That reading fits Rutte’s tone: no commentary on domestic US politics beyond encouragement, and continued emphasis on the transatlantic link.
Two competing positions are visible. One holds that Trump remains the decisive actor in European security regardless of Congress, because foreign policy and the use of force sit largely with the executive. The other holds that a Democratic-controlled Congress could constrain funding, oversight and sanctions policy. Neither the Rutte interview nor the reporting around it settles which view will prove correct.
Rutte’s strategy of personal outreach has been noted before. Torrey Taussig, a senior fellow at the Atlantic Council and a former NATO policy adviser at the Pentagon, told CNN that Rutte knows personal relationships go a long way with this administration. The approach has critics. RT noted that he has faced ridicule over attempts widely seen as flattery of Trump.
Allied foreign ministers are also scheduled to meet. Our coverage: G7 foreign ministers meeting, Rubio faces allies after midterm losses.
What to watch
- November 10 and 11, 2026: the Abu Dhabi talks among Ukraine, the US and Russia, which are expected to address postwar security arrangements and de-escalation.
- Security guarantees: whether Washington gives Kyiv specifics, and whether NATO members are consulted on any deal Trump says could involve all of Europe.
- Diesel deal fallout: whether European governments press the US publicly or follow Rutte’s more conciliatory line.
- Congress: how the incoming Democratic majorities treat Ukraine aid, Iran policy and defense funding once seated.
- Alliance messaging: whether Rutte repeats his emphasis on US power in his next public remarks, and whether any member states break with it.
Frequently asked questions
What did NATO chief Mark Rutte say to Trump after the midterms?
Rutte said he sent Trump a short message after Republicans lost both chambers of Congress in the November 3, 2026 midterms, telling him to keep his chin up. He disclosed this on the Dutch talk show Pauw & De Wit on November 5, 2026, according to Bloomberg and the Kyiv Post.
Does NATO expect Russia or Ukraine to win the war?
No. Rutte said on November 5, 2026 that an outright win for either side is unlikely and that such wars usually end in a peace deal, often a compromise. He also warned that Russia's large army would remain a threat to Europe once fighting in Ukraine stops.
When are the next Ukraine peace talks?
Trilateral talks between Ukraine, the United States and Russia are scheduled for Abu Dhabi on November 10 and 11, 2026, according to an announcement attributed to US envoy Steve Witkoff. They are expected to cover postwar security arrangements, de-escalation and further steps toward peace.
Sources
- Rutte Doubts Either Side Will Win Russia's War Against Ukraine
- NATO's Rutte Says He Told Trump to Keep 'Chin Up' After Midterms (Bloomberg via EnergyConnects)
- Mark Rutte wrote to Donald Trump after the US midterm elections
- Rutte says there will be no winners in russia's war against Ukraine
- Will there be a winner in Russia's war against Ukraine? Rutte responds
- The Head of NATO Just Admitted a Painful Truth: No One Is Going to Win the Ukraine War
- NATO chief calls out Europe over Putin-Trump diesel deal criticism (RT)
- Europe Still Sees Trump As Powerful, Especially in Foreign Policy (IntelliNews, from The New York Times)
- NATO's Mark Rutte emerges as Trump whisperer-in-chief (CNN via Yahoo)
- Rutte Doubts Either Side Will Win Russia’s War Against Ukraine
Top image: U.S. Department of Defense / Wikimedia Commons (Public domain)
This article was produced by the Intelligence Report Desk. Sources are linked below.

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